Language Exchange Tips
Posted in Konnichiwa on July 31st, 2008 by adminYesterday I had my first conversation with a native Japanese speaker. I have to admit that it does take a lot of patience to actually find a language exchange partner (that has similar interests). There are times where I was starting to believe that it was impossible to find a language exchange partner. However, when I received my first invite, I realized that I was wrong.
One thing that I have to mention is my approach of finding a partner. I wait for responses, I don’t actually pursue a partner because that is not how I am. Although if I had done the complete opposite I would probably have a lot more contacts on Skype. After paying a bit of attention to Skype’s language exchange community forums, I found that a few people do want to have an English conversation regardless if you speak their language or not. This gave me hope and ideas. One of my ideas was to volunteer to help those that actually want to have an oral conversation. The reason why I used the word ‘volunteer’ is because there are some sites that require paid memberships to speak with a native English speaker.
This offer has enticed a few people to contact me, the way I intended. Unfortunately for my side of the exchange, my level of the Japanese language is still at noob levels. Meaning I am not able to carry on an actual conversation, however I am working on it though
. I will list a few suggestions for those of you who are interested in finding a language exchange partner (the free method).
- Patience like I mentioned is very important. Without it I would probably have been discouraged and gave up. It is actually very necessary to have patience in learning any language I believe. Immersing yourself in another’s language is probably one of the best ways to learn. That is why I chose to participate in language exchanges.
- Use the Internet as a resource, this is a no brainer. There are plenty of free help websites in learning your desired language. An example that I could give is learning Kana. I found a lot of guides that teaches the brush strokes and their sounds. Also I found vocabulary sheets and free online dictionary for the Japanese language. There are many forums that you could visit to aid you in your studies.
- Here are two language exchange sites that I found to be very good. They are italki.com and language-exchanges.org. Both of these are very populated which is a good thing. Also Myspace and Facebook are good social networks that you could use.
- What I want to talk about next is regarding the applications that you’d use for chatting with your new partner. So far I learned that MSN messenger and Skype are the two popular clients used for voice chatting. Those that don’t like voice chats typically use e-mail as the primary form of communication.
I’m still new to the language exchange scene so feel free to let me know of your experiences and suggestions.

